Friendships: Chapter One "Revaluation"

Friendship is defined as the emotion or conduct of friends or a relationship between friends. We tend to lose ourselves in the mix of people, sometimes the wrong people and sometimes the right people. When you meet those right ones, keep them and try not to let them go. We all make mistakes, I know I have been stuck in one or two situations that I had to reevaluate myself. I look around sometimes and wonder why I feel so alone in a big group of people, then comes revaluation.

Am I in the right place? We all have different types of friends in our life; their are the supportive, the wish washy flippy floppy, the backstabbers, the"nothin' but love for ya baby's," the territorial kind, the family like, and the list goes on. The real evaluation is do you know who you are and will you be able to leave the wrong friendship, so you don't lose your flavor. Your flavor is what makes you unique in your group and sometimes your flavor gets lost being mixed with the wrong bunch. This means it is time to move on, and if you were sitting even wondering about your flavor in the group. It is time to say bye! Be by yourself for a while until you get mixed with the right ones again, reevaluate what you can bring to others. What is your flavor? It is possible that your flavor gets a little bitter for those around you and this does not always have to be a bad thing. It just means this chapter has now closed and it may re-open in the next three chapters of life or never again. Flavor, when it is right in the group, is the best feeling ever; it is refreshing, great jokes, and good vibes. I love it! We need to learn to love the good, bad, beautiful, and ugly friendships. So welcome to chapter one in my friendship series, where I will talk about common situations in friendships. Revaluation is key ladies and gents, do not lose yourself in any friendship or relationship. Just take a moment. It is actually okay to just take a moment for you.